Interviewing Survivors of Violence or Trauma

Interviewing people who have experienced trauma first-hand or have a loved one that have fallen victim to violence takes special care.  Here is a list of articles from the Dart Center For Journalism and Trauma that can help you stay sensitive and get the story at the same time.

Best Practices in Trauma Reporting
Covering Children & Trauma
Interviewing Victims
Tragedies & Journalists

TV Moms – Balancing Home Life and Producing

As my own mother puts it, “Motherhood is more than a notion.”  The demands, intensity and rewards are talked about, blogged about and dramatized in fiction.  With the non-stop schedules and sometime infantile personalities, television production work can be just as challenging.  Put the two together, and you may have a recipe of serious stress.

 How can TV Moms balance the demands of the family they love with the career they love (or at least find themselves in)?  I recently took part as a panelist in a discussion about motherhood and production hosted by the Washington, DC area Woman in Television and Film association to discuss that very question.  We shared some tips to help juggle it all.

• Give up the notion of Super Mom.  There is no such thing.  We are all Super Moms if we are loving and attentive to the needs of our family.  But this does not mean we are perfect.  I once sent my daughter to daycare in two left shoes.  It’s a long story.  The point is, she survived and doesn’t even remember it.  At the time of writing this article, I am feeling pretty good about my children’s development and my career development.  Just don’t look in my car – it’s disgustingly dirty.  And it’s not because of me that our floors are fit to eat off of. Thank God for Daddy!
• Join a TV Mom’s support group or start your own.  An editor friend and I decided to have TV Moms play date.  We invite other mothers in the industry to bring their kids, hand-me-downs and resumes. It’s fun and rejuvenating.  Plus I may have just gotten a gig because of one.  I also started a Goal Group with some Super Mom friends of mine.  We get together once a week, sometime via telephone, to set goals and hold each other accountable.  That’s how I finally got this blog site off the ground!
• Get a mentor.  No matter how far along you are in your career, there is always someone who has had more experience. Perhaps it is in production or perhaps it is in being a working mom.  Perhaps it is in an area of production that you’ve never explored.  It doesn’t matter if they are younger or older, man or woman.  It is just nice to have a “go to” person who can help you navigate your career.  My mentor is a single mom and an industry heavy-hitter.  She has given me helpful advice over the years and priceless job recommendations that have resulted in gigs.
• Research family friendly companies.  If you are working in a situation that is not compatible with your family life, research other options.  It may take awhile but it is possible to change your job environment.
• Craft a support system.  I am lucky to leave in my hometown with a number of family and friends that I can call on if I have to work late or travel.  If you can afford in-home help, consider getting a nanny while the children are young.  As the saying goes, “what all working women need is a wife.”
• Search out flexible opportunities.  Perhaps job sharing or working from home is an option for you.  If not, perhaps you can work through your lunch break Monday thought Thursday and work a half day on Fridays.  For two years, I searched for a work from home situation. I didn’t give up and have been working from home for the last 6 months.  This round of working from home may not last forever but I’ll keep searching for something permanent.

Don’t forget that you are not alone.  All TV Mom have moments when they feel that they are not doing a good job at home or at work.  The trick is to keep these moments to a minimum and not let them get you down.  Every once in awhile, that guilt monster tries to jump up on me.  But when I look at my children, I see that they are doing well, growing strong and enjoying life.  It’s okay if we miss our swim play date this time.  No one will fail to graduate high school if we put off potty training a couple of weeks until Mommy finishes shooting that news special.  And it’s okay if the kids have oatmeal and broccoli for dinner once in awhile.  In fact, they like it.  Just keep doing the best that you can and believe it or not, your best is good enough.

Steal These Documentary and Series Ideas… Please!

So many ideas and so little time. So I thought I’d share some ideas for free in the hopes that someone in the universe will stumble upon them and turn them into wonderful, fun, insightful shows, series and documentaries. Or at least, get some good brainstorming going. Did I mention that they are absolutely free?

Signs of the Messiah – This would be a documentary following people who are looking for signs that the Messiah is coming in whatever religion in which they believe. I have a friend who studies rap music and hard rock lyrics because he believes that the second coming of Jesus will be announced through music. This made me wonder how many other people out there are sign seekers in such unusual and interesting ways.

The Science Behind Rock Concerts – This documentary would follow one popular music group as they prepare for a concert. As they prepare, the film would delve into how our ears hear music, how our brains process it, how instruments make music, how we are able to sing, why humans respond to music, how microphones pick up music and how speakers broadcast music.

Extreme Collectors – I was amazed to learn that there are people who spend thousands upon thousands of dollars each year to collect sneakers! What other crazy collectors are out there? I’m sure some of these collectors as colorful characters.

6 Degrees of Separation – On each episode, contestants draw a name of a celebrity out of a big name drum. Then they have 48 hours to get in touch with that celebrity. The less steps/contacts it takes to find the celebrity, the more points they get. They also get more points for face to face meetings. The show could be hosted by someone who sort of knows Kevin Bacon. The

Ultimate Couch Potato Life – this lifestyle series would be hosted by a good looking guy with a bit of a beer belly. On each episode, he would give tips on how to maximize the coach potato experience. The tips could range from comfort food recipes to entertaining on game night. There could even be a “tools and technology” segment that explores the many uses of TiVo and such things as chairs with built in refrigerators.

From Celeb to Politician – What makes celebrities like Ronald Reagan, Jesse Ventura and Arnold Schwarzenegger decided to turn in the glamour for a politician’s life? And what makes them so good at it?

A Week In The Life of A Reenactor – Reenactors tend to be pretty colorful characters. They often dedicate all of their spare time to researching, practicing and preparing for reenactments in an effort to make them as real and as accurate as possible.

Greatest Fictional Characters – and their impact on society. These characters can be from books, TV, movies or cartoons. They can be dogs, doctors, lovers, villains, heros or even cars. For example, what effects have Cliff Huxtable, Gregory House and Trapper John had on our collective American psyches? This could be done as a top-10 count down show.

Mommy Bloggers – this is a phenomenon that has reached Wall Street. Many blogs started by moms about family, child rearing and motherhood now have the backing of major sponsorship. Who are these mommy bloggers and how can you cash in?

International Holidays in the U.S. – I’d love to see how Hindus in Berkeley are celebrating Diwali and how the West Indians in DC go all out for the Carnival in Brooklyn. There are lots of international holidays being celebrated in our own back yards. You don’t even need a passport.

If you’ve any of these ideas on air already, that only proves that they are good. Hey, now that I’ve written these ideas out, some of them look kinda good. Hurry up and produce them before I do!  If you have any ideas that you’d like someone else to produce, please share.